You Are Not Falling Apart, You are Breaking Free

Me: Hello God.
God: Hello…
Me: I’m falling apart. Can you put me back together?
God: I’d rather not.
Me: Why?
God: Because you’re not a puzzle.
Me: What about all the pieces of My life that fall to the ground?
God: Leave them there. They fell for a reason. Let them be.

Me: You don’t understand! I’m breaking up!

God: No, you don’t understand. You’re Breaking Free!
You’re transcending, evolving. What you feel are growing pains, motivators that cause you to look beyond your present circumstances. You’re getting rid of the things and people in your life that are no longer serving you, they’re keeping you stuck. These pieces are falling away for a reason.
Take a deep breath and let those things that no longer serve you fall away. Stop clinging to pieces that no longer benefit you. They’re not yours anyway. They’re just experiences. Their usefulness has past, they’re not for you any longer.
Let them fall. Let them go.


Me: Once I start doing that, what will I have left?
God: You will have yourself, Only the pieces that make up your true essence.


Me: I’m afraid to change.
God: I keep telling you:
YOU’RE NOT CHANGING!

YOURE WAKING UP! YOU’RE REMEMBERING! 


Me: Remembering Who?


God: Who I created you to be!
A spirit inhabiting a human body. You are light, love, charity, hope, courage, joy, mercy, grace compassion, and YES forgiveness.
I made you for so much more than those shallow fragments that ego HAD convinced you that you are. No longer decide to adorn yourself by clinging to disillusion, and fear.

Let those things fall away. I love you!

Don’t change! Become !

Don’t change! Remember!

Remember and Be who You truly are.

Choose the life I created for you.
I’m gonna keep telling you this until you remember.

Me: There goes another piece.
God: Yes. Let it be like this.
Me: So… I’m not broken?
God: No, but you are breaking free, breaking through the darkness, becoming the dawn.

It’s a new day. Remember!!!

Remember who you really are!!!”

Author Unknown

You are Enough

Donel Rourke, C.Hyp

90 Second Rule

When you feel an emotion raising up in you, is it coming from an outside source or from your own thoughts?

One thing I tell myself and those I counsel is truly feel the feeling that you are feeling, for only 90 seconds.

Truly feel joy, happiness, anger, sadness, whatever emotion shows up “FEEL IT”. After the 90 seconds you are no longer feeling the feeling because of an emotional response, you are now creating that feeling from your thoughts and beliefs.

Stop!!!

Don’t stay caught up in the emotional loop.

That is how you find yourself living in the known past or the predictable future.

Live in the now.

Feel the emotion of “NOW”!

Not what has happened or what could happen.

The only true reality is the present moment.

The present moment is the reality that we need to base our emotional wellbeing on.

“When a person has a reaction to something in their environment,” she says, “there’s a 90-second chemical process that happens in the body; after that, any remaining emotional response is just the person choosing to stay in that emotional loop.”
“Something happens in the external world, and chemicals are flushed through your body which puts it on full alert. For those chemicals to totally flush out of the body, it takes less than 90 seconds. This means that for 90 seconds you can watch the process happening, you can feel it happening, and then you can watch it go away.”
“After that, if you continue to feel fear, anger, and so on, you need to look at the thoughts that you’re thinking that are re-stimulating the circuitry that is resulting in you having this physiological reaction, over and over again.”-Harvard brain scientist Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor

Break the Emotional Loop

1)Identify the Emotional Response:

How does it feel?

Does it have a color, shape or size?

Where in your body do you feel this response?

2) Label/ Name the Emotion

Emotions are Intense: Joy, Fear, Anger, Enthusiasm, Attraction.

3) Feel the Feeling

Feelings like happiness, worry, contentment, bitterness,love, are all side effects of the more intense emotion of joy, fear, anger, enthusiasm, and attraction.

Allow the emotion to happen without judgment for 90 seconds. Feel the feeling fully for 90 seconds then release it.

Let it Go!

If you find you can’t let it go it is because of the words you are telling yourself and the pictures you are creating in your head.

If you find you are having a hard time breaking those thought patterns/beliefs find out how I can help. Schedule your free 20 minute consultation, now.

Donel Rourke, C.Hyp

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I am Enough are You?

This is the book I will be doing an online book club with for 2021.

Join me and let’s make 2021 your happiest, healthiest sexiest year.

I Am Enough: Mark Your Mirror And Change Your Life-Marisa Peer

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THREE WORDS THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE

When you know that you are enough everyone around you will know that you are enough too. Your life will be so different and so much better when you can resonate your enoughness at a level that positively impacts your career, your relationships and your happiness levels.

You can use the power of stating that you are enough, that you always have been and always will be, to achieve success in every key area of your life. When you say it, think it and believe it and make it an automatic and regular part of your life you can expect to see wonderful improvements in your relationships, in your career and in how you feel about yourself.

This book is designed to help you massively increase your own sense of self-worth so that you like yourself, feel good about yourself and believe in yourself. Whilst becoming permanently free from self-sabotage and self-destructive thoughts and behaviors. When this happens you are able to live a happy, motivated and confident life, not just sometimes but all the time.

I Am Enough has been written in a style that is designed to change you from the inside out. It changes you on a personal level using Marisa Peer’s proven techniques to make a deep and lasting impact on how you feel about you and how others feel about you. Marisa has been a leading therapist for over 30 years and has developed her own method of therapy called Rapid Transformational Therapy that has won numerous awards because of its effectiveness. Many of her most effective techniques and methods are contained within this book. The powerful wording and cutting-edge techniques inside this book, enable you to achieve powerful and recognizable results rapidly and permanently. Marisa is passionate about helping people to change using simple techniques that have powerful results and now you too can use them to change your life.

20 Minutes “I am Enough” Guided Meditation You Can Do Anywhere – Marisa Peer

Donel Rourke

Christian’s To Be Hypnotized or Not Be Hypnotized That is the Question

Lets look at a few “Definitions” of Hypnosis.

Hypnosis is a state of human consciousness involving focused attention and reduced peripheral awareness and an enhanced capacity for response to suggestion.

A state which resembles sleep but is produced by a person who can then make suggestions to which the person in this state can respond.” 

Think about hypnosis as simply a deeply-focused meditation where good things can and will take place. Look in the Bible, it is filled with injunctions for Christians to meditate upon the word of God. So what does injunction mean? Injunction the failure to perform such acts, would cause one of the parties irreparable harm. Meditate on the word of God and watch your life change in miraculous ways.

In the bible Peter entered into meditative states twice recorded and the Bible approved his “trances” both times. Isaiah, Daniel, Paul and Jeremiah all experienced times of hypnotic trance and heightened awareness inspired by God to give them deep insights into their person and character. The person God created them to be.

So if you are a Christian and believe that hypnosis is evil and not biblical please do your research.

Roman’s 12:2 Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.(NLT)

So here is the question I get asked, “Can hypnosis open my mind in any way that might allow Satan to get control of my thinking?”

The truth is that during hypnosis, you often have more control over your mind than ever before. Just because you may be more susceptible to suggestions in no way means that you will lose control of your mind and do things that you never intended to do. You only accept the suggestions that are right for you. You are in control. The hypnotherapist is just the guide helping you navigate your sub-conscous mind.

My prayers is this helped answer some of your question about is Hypnosis and Christianity.

Just to let you know the Roman Catholic , Anglican, and Lutheran church all actively support and utilize hypnosis in helping people.

Water – Just Drink it

 

I have heard all the excuses, I don’t need to drink water I get my water from tea, coffee, soda, any and every other beavarge than water. How is that working for you?

Skin looks healthy?

Digestive system works properly?

Are you tired or full of energy?

How is your sleep?

Do you lose focus during the day?

Are you the happiest healthiest person you could be?

Give water a chance. Just drink it. At least 64oz of good water.

You see our brains do what we tell it to do. And we tell our brains we don’t like water, Why?

Let’s look at our body and just how important water is for it to work properly.

The brain and heart are composed of around 73% water, and the lungs are about 83% water. The skin contains 64% water, while the muscles and kidneys are 79% water, and even the bones are watery: 31%.

In adult men, about 60% of their bodies are water. However, fat tissue does not have as much water as lean tissue. In adult women, fat makes up more of the body than men, so they have about 55% of their bodies made of water.

Body water is the primary building block for cells. It helps to regulate the internal body temperature, strengthens your muscles and moisturizes your skin. Good Stuff, right!

So lets change the dialoge you have with yourself. Tell yourself You love water.

Say outloud to yourself 4x a day “I LOVE WATER”!!

Here is my 100oz water schedule:

Wake up drink I drink 4-6 oz room temperature water that is next to my bed from the night before. I use my Shakeology Blender cup because it has a lid and it fits in my hand easily and it is light and it is around 24 oz.

I fill it up first thing in the morning and I Drink the first one by 9am.

Fill up again drink all by 12pm.

Fill next 24 oz up with water and a little Himalayan salt to add in some minerals/ electrolytes drink all by 3pm.

The last fill is to be finished by 6 no later than 8pm unless you want to have to get up to go to bathroom.

I fill my container up halfway and take sips when ever I need to the rest of the night and drink rest in morning.

A good rule of thumb is 1 gallon water 1/4 teaspoon himalayan salt. This helps to keep electrolytes up.

Look your body needs a lot of water to function properly so-JUST DRINK IT!

A Healer’s Prayer

A Healer’s Prayer

Oh Great One, the Spirit that lives in all creation and every space,
I pray for my healing space, my healing circle, and I pray for me
Grant me the ability to set aside my stories, my unfounded fears, preconceived ideas, personal prejudices and judgements, upon entering my sacred space
Make this space a safe haven for all those who need healing or are an instrument thereof
Let me enter into it like a newborn, pure at heart, with eyes that behold with wonder and curiosity,
eager to learn from an infinite source of wisdom.
Create in me a clear, unobstructed channel to receive your pure light and divine messages with ease and flow,
Grant me the intuition to utilise the needed tools and gifts available to me to facilitate release, repair, unfoldment and empowerment
Fill my heart with unconditional love, pure kindness, compassion, and a true desire to enter into service for the good of all.
Let my outpouring of divine love transcend the negativity and turmoil left outside,
Bringing peace and tranquility into this holy space.
Envelope me with unwavering faith and trust in my innate ability to speak directly to you and to hear your response, unspoken but highly audible in my being
Feel my gratitude, Oh Great Spirit
And bless the work I do, in honour of You

Zogra Cox

Pure Herbs-The Best Herbs To Have A Healthy Body

The Best Herbs To Have A Healthy Body

In 1994 I was introduced to a company called Pure Herbs from my chiropractor. He had already helped heal mine and my daughter’s allergies so I trusted his recommendation. I still use these herbs over 26 years later.

Here is a list of the amazing herbs. EverythingHerbs Pure Herbs

Anti Bullying Techniques

I really do not like it when someone bullies me.

In the past I took it personally. Now I don’t allow the bully to have power over me.

You see when you choose “not” to let in opinions that hurt you, then you become bulletproof to criticism.

Read that line again.

Do you see the word, “CHOOSE”? It is your choice to let something in or not.

Pay attention! No one can ever make you feel bad about yourself unless you let them.

IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO CHOOSE TO NOT LET IT IN.

Do you know that the most critical people are their own worst critics?

They are because they are expressing outwardly their own inner criticism, hurt and pain. The bully is “Hurting” so much on the inside, that they project what they live. They are getting hurt, bullied and made to feel they are not “Enough” by someone in their life, usually a parent. By understanding this, we can arm ourselves with the knowledge that it is not about “Me” it is about “them”.

Best-selling Author, Motivational Speaker and Leading Celebrity Therapist & Pioneering Hypnotherapist Trainer, Marisa Peer shares how simple truths can change your life.

Here are Marisa’s 5 things you can say to someone who tries to criticize you:

  1. “Thank you for sharing that.” If someone says something hurtful, you are acknowledging their opinion, dissipating any negative tension, but you don’t have to let it in or accept it.
  2. “I’m sorry I didn’t hear all of that, please can you repeat that slowly?” By asking them to repeat it and really think about what they are saying, they will often take it back or consider how it may come across.
  3. “Are you trying to hurt my feelings? Are you trying to make me feel bad about myself? Why would you say that?” If there’s a positive intention behind the criticism, by asking this you can understand the motivation behind it.
  4. “Well, that’s not going to work, I am not going to let that in.” Just like the Holy man, you don’t have to accept criticism, you can choose not to let it in. You cannot stop people criticizing, but you can change the way it affects you.
  5. “While we are sharing, did you know that critical people have the most criticism reserved for themselves? They don’t like themselves, they are their own worst critic. Your outer projections reveal a lot about what’s going on inside.” It’s empowering to know that it’s their issues and not yours.

Learning about Yoni Eggs

So I love to share the things that I’m researching and this is my newest ways of balancing the energies in my body. Yoni Eggs

These are the Yoni eggs I purchased with the description of everything that they do. We’ll see how it goes. I’ll share the place I ordered mine from. No I don’t make any money off of this I’m just telling you where I got mine..

Yoni eggs

Nephrite Jade

Nephrite Jade is the Goddess of all crystals, and is the material used in the original yoni egg dating back thousands of years ago. This yoni egg helps to assist in the soothing of negative energies, this is done by releasing fear of hardship and change and replenishing a positive outlook on your future. By connecting with your heart and mind it is believed to help clear blocked chakras. This is a perfect yoni egg to start your yoni egg journey.

Crown Chakra  

Amethyst 

Amethyst is the birthstone for February and is associated with the planet Jupiter. The zodiac signs that are associated with Amethyst are Virgo, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces. The elements that this stone represents are air and water as well as number 3 vibration. The chakras this crystal is associated with are the third eye and crown chakra, and the Amethyst colors are light violet to deep velvet purple. Amethyst yoni eggs are well known for activating your psychic awareness. Amethyst is said to assist us in moving through energies that have clouded our bodies ability to be in full power in ones receptivity. This crystal helps improve psychic abilities and intuition, with communication, inner peace and healing, and spiritual awareness. This is a protective crystal that will shield you from psychic attacks. It also helps spiritually boost your aura and mental clarity.

Third Eye Chakra

Opalite

Opalite improved communication on all levels, especially spiritually. It has been known to remove energy blockages of the chakras and meridians. Emotionally, Opalite helps by assisting during transitions of all kinds. It engenders persistence and gives us strength in verbalizing our hidden feelings. These small yet powerful eggs are said to cause emotional, physical and spiritual transformation and healing.

Throat Chakra

Blue Aventurine

Blue Aventurine – Do you feel so many thoughts and feelings but have trouble communicating them? Blue Aventurine may be the perfect crystal for you! By corresponding to the third eye and throat chakra, this crystal will help you improve your communication skills while attracting abundance and prosperity. This will increase your chances of a positive outcome for any situation.

This crystal will help enhance your discipline and willpower, giving you a nice balance of your emotions with logic.

Heart Chakra

Rose Quartz

Rose Quartz is associated with the planet Venus, and the signs Libra and Taurus, and the elements water and earth. The healing properties it possesses are promoting love for yourself, calmness, and healing relationships. It helps bring positivity back into your life and helps encourage forgiveness, trust, and acceptance.

This stone helps when it comes to comfort those who are grieving.

This crystal works with your heart chakra to help unblock negative energies and open your heart up to love, whether its love for yourself, family love, friendship love, love for humanity or a love interest. When working with Rose Quartz you will feel a flush of happiness, peace, compassion and forgiveness. This will assist you with taking a hold and releasing negative emotions and thoughts.

Solar Plexus Chakra

Tigers Eye

Tiger’s eye is known as a protective crystal as it will keep you safe from psychic attacks, and it helps you develop clear thinking and helps with self-empowerment. It is a stone that is used for grounding, grace, willpower, integrity, as well as courage.

Tiger’s Eye is associated with the Sun, as well as the zodiac sign Capricorn, and the fire and earth elements. The vibration of 4 is also associated with Tigers Eye. The Tiger’s Eye yoni egg is a favorite of yogis, as it resonates very strongly with the solar plexus chakra, and carries a wild energy with it. It is know to have metaphysical properties that strengthen will-power, focus, determination, and confidence. It is an effective stone to assist you to accomplish goals.

If you are prone to criticizing your own actions, you may be experiencing a lack of self worth. This stone may help you, as it will infuse you with self confidence, brightness and optimism that may relieve these feelings of lack.

Sacral Chakra  

Red Jasper

Red Jasper helps to calm tensions and promotes courage, self-confidence, self-empowerment, and the desire to go after your goals to the point that you would become unstoppable. This crystal will help you become confident without you having to worry about your ego becoming inflamed. Red jasper does this with its naturally grounding vibrations and correspondence to the root chakra. 

Red Jasper is associated with the planet Mars, the zodiac sign Aries, the earth & fire elements, and is associated with the root chakra. The color represents is red, and is the ideal stone for grounding. Red Jasper yoni eggs are known as being the stone of justice. This crystal will help to transform your mental projects and ideas into reality. Red Jasper supports energy flow into the body and creates a barrier against external influences. 

Root Chakra

Black Obsidian

Black Obsidian is a powerful protecting and guiding crystal. Made from obsidian these eggs symbolize self-control, truth and resilience. Enjoy your perfect tool for releasing disharmony, fear, anger and resentment. These eggs will help you rid yourself of selfish tendencies and intentions. These eggs will also help to enhance intuition and brings order out of chaos.

I will start my journey with Nephrite Jade the Goddess of all crystals. As I heal my my mind with my hypnosis, meditations and affirmations I will be focussing on aligning my energy field with breathe and yoni eggs. Will write more on my experience.

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